What's the etiquette for when you make your own sex tape or photos with a one-night stand - do you owe them a copy?

I’ve never actually been in such a situation before where someone has taped a one-night stand that I was involved in… at least not that I’m aware of. I’ve been involved in a situation where a video camera was set up and hooked up to a TV so that my partner and I could watch ourselves making our own little love movie, but I’ve always been the one in charge of the video to make sure that it was never officially saved and documented.

In copying your nights with a one-night stand, I think that it might be rather awkward to provide him or her with a copy of the evening. It has a “this is going to be online in 15 minutes” feel to it. If it was a really good night and if you think you captured some decent footage, feel free to weigh your options. Keep in mind, not all of us look as amazing as we feel while in the heat of passion. There might be hairy butts staring at the camera, or that weird eye twitch that comes around every once and a while. All these things need to be taken into consideration.

If you’ve weighted your options appropriately, and you feel like you really want to share your one-night stand with your stranger, go ahead. Hopefully you have the proper dubbing equipment on hand to go ahead and whip up a fresh amateur DVD. Give this copy to your stranger as a lovely parting gift – just slip the DVD into the coat pocket upon departure. Whether or not you let the stranger know that he or she now has a copy of their own porn performance is your own decision, but I like to live under the impression that everyone loves parting gifts and party favors – especially if it’s a surprise. Maybe you should also give the stranger a single serving box of cereal to snack on while on his or her way home. It might help to digest the situation.

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